The Piece -of- Man

I must admit that I had reservations about the Tiny & Toya Show but after watching it I have to keep it real and confess that I can identify with their situations, especially Toya. If any of you watch the show you will recall during the first (maybe the second) episode Tiny & Toya were having girl talk about males & relationships. Toya made a comment about not wanting to settle "for da piece-a-man". That comment stuck with me and during my long ride home I had to ask myself am I settling for the "piece-of-man"? If you're getting ready to judge me take a step back and ask yourself are you settling for the "piece-of-man"? The answer will be different for each of us. What you will tolerate might send me running in my stilettos and vice versa. Today I asked myself "what kind of relationship do you want with this person?" I was suprised to discover that I'm not clear on what I want but I am sure of what I don't want. I don't want to lose every standard I set for myself for the sake of having the piece -of -man. I never thought I'd be the one to settle for whatever attention I could get from a guy. In love you will do some things that you swore you'd never do ,and like my grandfather always use to say "if you haven't done something you regret keep living". The question is when will Jennifer (feel free to insert your own name here if this applies to you) draw the line? You want to know something else? Nobody is making me settle I am well aware of the situation (no I'm not messing with somebody else's man) I was briefed on the situation and I KEEP making the same mistake over & over again this person is sticking to there script. One thing I can't stand is when a female plays the hopeless victim like someone is tricking them into the situation. Ladies, we know what the deal is! If a guy says he's not feeling a relationship we should believe them!!!! Sometime create these "relationship" in our minds then we get mad when he says game over and wifes up the next chic because now he's ready. Why write the guy off as a another selfish bastard who did his wrong?
Honestly, isn't this really what we say about the guy because it's to hard to look in the mirror and admit that you played yourself?

I don't know what ya'll going through but I'm going through it and I'm tired of it. If I spent more energy loving myself I would be alot happier, wealthier, thinner, and better off! Wonder what I'll do next?